|There's no crying in working out!|
Have you ever looked at a situation, thrown your hands up in the air and said, “Whatever! Fine! Not meant to be. I get it.”
I went to the gym Wednesday night, and basically did this in my head. Had I done it literally, I’m pretty sure I’d have been wedgied, and justifiably so. Monday’s are the worst night to go to the gym, and I’ve learned Wednesday is clearly a close second. I went up hoping to find a few people (preferably the older members who don’t use the same equipment or weights I do) milling around and basically staying out of my way so I could have an awesome workout session without awkward waiting, without an audience, and without much wasted time. Instead, I walk inside and discover other people (gasp!) having the audacity to use the facilities for which they pay dearly every month at the same time I wanted to use them. “Whatever! Fine! Not meant to be. I get.”
I walked around a little, observing that the stations I wanted to use were being used by guys who, while in less need of them than myself, had every right to be using them when I happened to want to be. I sulked a little, I pouted, and I considered going home. But after weighing my options, I recognized my whole schedule would be blow if I took off, so instead, I got to work.
I picked less popular machines and did some different exercises on them. My body was challenged and responded. I also discovered ‘dips’, which were something I hadn’t really done to date. My shoulders let me know I really need to be doing them. I no longer felt like having a hissy fit. After the first thirty minutes, the place was clearing out and I was able to get to some of things I couldn’t before. Being appreciative to finally get to the equipment, I upped my weights. By the end of the night, I had a better workout than I ever would have if things had been the way I imagined they should be when I first arrived.
When things go just the way we think they should, that can be nice. But other times, what looks like a challenge or an obstacle is actually the stimulus we need to break through a wall or surpass a plateau we’ve been stuck on.
Not every problem you encounter is an opportunity waiting to be discovered, but rarely does the status quo contain any such potential. Embrace a challenge and reap the rewards. Shrink from one, and be left to wonder what you could have accomplished.